Still no news

I am so sad today. What was supposed to be "in the next few days" has now been a week without an I-800A approval. My little boy is in an institution, and I can't do anything about it, and no one seems to care. My dossier will not be in China before the end of December without a miracle. I know it's in God's perfect timing, but I don't understand why my little Tyson has to stay in an orphanage so long when all we want is to get him home and help him thrive and live a good life. I just don't get it.